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‘The Three C’s’ – my take on choices, chances, changes

I wrote a blog for the mishfit website a little over two years ago in amongst the messy grief following Charles’ death.  (You can read it HERE if you don’t know that whole story.)  Reading it back now it feels very much like I was laying my grief out there for all to read and somehow hoping that in the process I would be able to figure out what the hell had just happened.

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Hello my name is Thea and my cervix hangs to the left

Every woman’s favourite pastime – the pap smear

Once every 12-months (or so) I rock up to my gynaecologist to spend about 15 minutes of my life having my cervix scraped.  And that day was today.

The reason that I go every year, as opposed to every two years like most other women in Australia is because I have a history of dodgy pre-cancerous cells in and around my cervix.  And in the interests of public service I thought I’d share a little about what I’ve learned over the last nine years since my cells all started going a bit bonkers and I became increasingly phobic of having a speculum inserted in my vagina.

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I’m no writer…

…but here’s why I journal

There have been a whole bunch of studies done on the power of writing out your thoughts.  Try googling it.

But let me tell you about why I do it to see if that speaks to you.  I dream like a mad-woman.  I’m as busy in my dreams as I am in my day.  And I remember pretty much every day what I’ve dreamt the night before.  I can wake up in tears, shaking with fear, laughing or in shock.  But I always dream.  And because of the way dreams work it often triggers stuff that I need to work through.  I write it down.  And if I’ve had an argument with Andrew or I’m worried about the children or I’m exploring something for my business.  I write them down too.

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I’m no Buddhist…

…but here’s my take on meditation

There is a wealth of science out there that supports why meditation is a good thing.  Feel free to google, or just read this for a quick flavour of the stuff that’s out there.

Meditation has a long and complicated history via a couple of religions or philosophies.  Here’s a link to a great timeline for anyone who wants more history detail.

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Fear and love, sunshine and shadows

The change process, the coaching journey…whatever you want to call what we do as I walk alongside you, is a tricky balancing-act.   I’m going to be totally honest with you.  Sometimes it gets messy.  Emotionally challenging.  We get into a whole bunch of stuff that sometimes we’d probably rather ignore, or at least pretend aren’t part of the puzzle.

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Changing your life requires action: the power of rituals

ACT – Action Changes Things

You know how I have been saying for the last few weeks that change is hard?  And that it works best when there’s a method in there somewhere?  And most importantly of all, that once all the foundations have been laid with regards to values, visions and intentions then the magic only really happens when there’s action?

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Stop chasing goals – live your life intentionally

Intentions not goals

In my old corporate HR world I was all about my ‘five-year plan’ and having a set of very clear goals to work towards.  I’ve even used goals A LOT in my Personal Training business – both personally and with my clients.  If you’ve ever joined a gym you’ll be used to being asked what your fitness goals are.  One of Nike’s adverts:

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It starts here: valuing your vision

I was explaining in last week’s blog that becoming a better human was very much an inside job.  It takes a lot of self work.  It’s a process of introspection, increasing your self-awareness and figuring out some honest answers to some tough questions.  

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Learning about life #bradybunchstyle

It’s been a little over six months since 3 + 4 = 7 and #bradybunchtowers was birthed in Camberwell.  Blended families aren’t a new phenomenon and I’m quite sure there are literally thousands of people blogging about their experiences, but here’s some of what I’ve learned so far.

I shared a Facebook post before Christmas which generated a fair amount of comment.  (Find the post HERE)  It wasn’t meant as a ‘poor me’ post, and I most definitely wasn’t looking for sympathy, it was more one of these kind of observations:

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Coming back – well that sucks

Today I’m sitting stranded in a fog-bound Dubai airport trying to make it back to England to visit family.  Yesterday, back home in Melbourne, I went for a swim.  It was my first swim in probably 12 months.

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